about 7-8 years ago my friend Denise met a guy through an internet dating site. after a few dates she told me "I think Phil would be better for you than for me." and she set me up on a blind date. our first date was at an Italian restaurant, Papa Joe's, a place I'd eaten with Drew and some of our friends. while we were eating, he started telling me about his passion and involvement with a local theater group, one that did a lot of Gilbert & Sullivan operettas. he asked me if I'd heard of any Gilbert & Sullivan works, other than the big three -- Mikado , HMS Pinafore and Pirates of Penzance . I said yes, I'd see Iolanthe , that my ex husband, his parents and his sister were all involved in a Gilbert & Sullivan group. he looked at me and said "YOU'RE Drew's ex wife?" yep, they were involved with the same Gilbert & Sullivan group. Phil acts and directs, and Drew and his sister perform. I went out with Phil for a few months. ...