It's the start of a new month and the start of a new year. some would say, the start of a new decade -- I am a purist and realize that 2010 is the last year of the decade, just as 2000 was the last year of the millenium. This is a year full of changes, a year full of promise.I will, G-d willing, have a major celebration in February -- my 50th birthday. What a milestone that is in anyone's life. but for me it's even more important -- just before my 45th birthday (in January 2005) I was diagnosed with uterine cancer, and genuinely wondered if I would make the "5 year" mark. Of course, this "double occasion" will be celebrated with as much joie de vivre as I can possibly muster, on a cruise to the Caribbean. My birthday will be spent visiting tropical rainforest and ancient Mayan ruins, and with a lavish dinner aboard ship that night. There will be other lifestyle changes as well. Becca will graduate from high school at the end of June and wil...